Welcome to the digital age, where courtship through phones becomes a trend. Sending text messages to your hottie’s number is the newest way to start up a conversation. Texting is a lowkey-kind of courtship, and once you do it right, you will surely be overwhelmed with the rest of your dating life. Your inbox will be full of heart-melting messages. Bring the fire higher with these proven tips of your courtship through your mobile devices.
Have Fun With Emojis
Emojis are adorable. They make your messages expressive and thoughtful. Have fun with these cute size-icons on your keyboard. There are thousands of emojis to select from. Select the appropriate ones that will match the context of your message.
For example, if your crush celebrates his birthday today, send her a greeting message and make it creative and thoughtful by including birthday celebration-related emojis, such as cake emoji, balloon, beverage, party popper, and wrapped gift emojis. This is your biggest chance to express your warm feelings.
Include Some Pictures
As they say, a picture’s worth a thousand words. Thus, instead of sending hundreds of words to express what you feel and make her smile, simply send a photo that may symbolize your genuine love. You can send a photo of a particular landscape full of blooming flowers, a hugging couple, or even a picture of her favorite pet to make her heart melt.
Make Some Jokes
Being funny makes you sexy. Making jokes is one of the best and proven ways to get your crush’s heart. Make her laugh harder by sending her funny jokes, and includes some funny emojis. This is why you need to have guts to start the whole conversation. If you can make her smile and laugh while replying, you have won.
Break Awkward Or Silent Moments
If the conversation is slowly getting awkward, you are persistent in getting her attention and breaking the ice. If you think it will be silent in just a few minutes, create another topic, or ask more about her.
You can ask about her past, hobbies, likes and dislikes, talents, and anything about her. Try to tell her to open up, listen to her stories; just don’t be a conversational narcissist. Most of the girls simply need someone who can listen.
Be Who You Truly Are
Being natural is one of the ideal characteristics of a lot of girls. There is no need to be pretentious while courting. You have to be yourself. Text her anything about your true self. Girls love hearing them. No one wants to love a two-faced guy because, in the end, it’s their loss.
Be Direct
It is indeed true that courting takes time, but there is nothing wrong with being direct. While pursuing your goal, try to be straightforward with your feelings. Directly tell her your intentions. It saves both of you from possible stress caused by repression.
Text Her Something Sweet
This is especially helpful when you are texting a girl for the first time. You can flirt with her a little and tell her something sweet that makes her heart beats. You can start up a conversation by mentioning the things you admire about her. However, make sure to be genuinely lovely.
Talk About Your Shared Experience
One of the best proven ways to get her attention is by bringing up something you have in common, including your shared experiences, interests, goals, or hobbies. If possible, check their profile. If both of you love to read various literary pieces, recommend the best titles you have read. This can deepen your whole conversation.
Observe How Your Crush Replies
By observing how your crush replies to your messages, you can evaluate your acts towards her. If her replies are too short, you don’t have to act like you’re too needy or clingy. Perhaps, she’s just busy doing personal matters. You have to give her time. Never push anything. You will only look too desperate. However, when she replies with some questions. That is your clue to continue the conversation.
At Some Point, Let Your Crush Start The Topic
It’s not really necessary that you always start the conversation. Their silence means a lot. You have to respect it. Try for some other tactics to break the silence, but just do nothing if it doesn’t work. At some point, allow her to start the conversation first. Allow her to bring up a topic. Perhaps, she needs that.
Takeaway
Texting through messenger, Omegle, Tinder, and other dating apps is the newest way of courtship, and there’s nothing wrong with that as we are living in the ’20s. It allows you to know the person more, even without actually seeing their face. As they say, the most genuine love you can ever find is those you cannot see, but feel.
